Not obsessed, just impolite.

How do I convince my boyfriend to buy me something for valentines day without actually telling him to get it for me?

Why should your boyfriend A) be told to get you something or B) have to get you anything at all?

It’s just Valentine’s day. I think gifts on Holidays, especially Hallmark Holidays don’t show as much sentiment as gifts given because he just so happened to be thinking of you, or new you would like it so much he went out of his way to get it.

Did you get him anything? If you did that’s very nice of you. Once again though it’s about giving not receiving.

You should like your boyfriend enough that having him around or spending the day with him would be enough.

That’s just my opinion though. Best of luck.

Anything. Really. Keep it coming.